Friendship Over Emotion

One of the hardest feelings in the world is when you are already falling in love to your friend or even best friend. You try your best to hide the feeling for that person, but you can't. Each day that passes, you fall deeper. You even try to avoid that person but you failed.

Bottom line, why are you avoiding to fall in love with your friend/ best friend?

• You're afraid of rejection. No one wants the feeling of being rejected by the person they love. 
• You're afraid of sacrificing the friendship. Not all relationship end up in walking the aisle moment. Sometimes, it ends up to break ups. What hurts is sometimes "You were just somebody I used to know" scenario where in friends become strangers because of what happen. People forget all the happy moments they cherished, bitterness and pain overcomes it.
• You can't avoid expecting. People can't avoid to expect from another person. Too much expectations will lead to disappointment. What if they did not meet your expectation? You end up hurting yourself.
• You're just a friend for that person. You are falling in love to your friend who is already committed or you know that s/he likes/loves another person already, you end up nothing. You end up being a friend, no more than that. You can't do nothing about it because you don't control their feelings.

Sometimes, you have to weigh things and choose between them on where it will last. Y You can have both, but it depends on you. Are you prepared and ready to handle to have the two special kinds of relationship?Maybe you can't say it now, but time is unpredictable. Maybe now is not the time, nor tomorrow or the other day. Only One knows. For me, being friends with your future husband/wife is one advantage. Friendship is a good foundation of best relationship, but you have to take it one step at a time. Do not be in a hurry, and everything will fall into its perfect place.